"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Using Your CellPhone for Convo Starters

maranathaman

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I apologize if this is not a new idea, but it's new to me!
One of my main problems in approaching women has
been thinking of something to say.
I need conversation starters! I find that when I'm not
under the gun, I have no problem thinking of topics
I could have used to start a convo with a hottie.
But when the rubber meets the road, all to often my
mind fails to come-up with ideas and I lose the opportunity.
This has even happened numerous times when I was getting IOIs from the chick.
Then I got the idea: maybe I should write down some convo topics
in my CellPhone!
This way, if I see a hot chick,
I don't have to brainstorm what to say on the spot.
I can simply whip-out my cellphone as if I'm receiving or sending
a textmessage.
When in reality, I'm looking at a note I wrote to myself
listing several topics of convo that I have previously rehearsed.
Hope this helps! ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bvbidd

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Conversation is really overated.

Just make fun of her or something.

That's a lot better then looking up notes in the middle of an interaction.
 

Lust

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Bvbidd said:
Conversation is really overated.

Just make fun of her or something.

That's a lot better then looking up notes in the middle of an interaction.
Agreed.

Keep it light hearted, fun and spontaneous.

Forget about a conversation thread you thought of, last tuesday while you were flipping through a magazine, in the toilet taking a dump.

The only way you can train your mind at become quicker to respond and becoming sharper at this is going in field and testing yourself out.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Why waste space in your cell phone for conversation topics? Just carry a Bible with you and start quoting scriptures, there's tons of them.
 

COD

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GOOGLE GIRLFRIENDX its a hand held device that does just that, although there are like 10-20 cell phones services that offer text advice.

hmmmm thats a good invention.........TEXT COACHING OR VIRTUAL WINGMAN.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rudra

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Take a photograph of your c0ck.. from a good angle, so it looks great, then take some pictures of the chick you are hanging out with. Show her the pics and "accidentally" stumble upon the one with your c0ck on it.

Not my tip, not my style (not at all), but a guy I know (mayor player...) is pulling this off and - as outlandish as it sounds - he scores with it.

Not as a conversation starter, of course. You got to know the girl some of course.
 
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