"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Using Your CellPhone for Convo Starters

maranathaman

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I apologize if this is not a new idea, but it's new to me!
One of my main problems in approaching women has
been thinking of something to say.
I need conversation starters! I find that when I'm not
under the gun, I have no problem thinking of topics
I could have used to start a convo with a hottie.
But when the rubber meets the road, all to often my
mind fails to come-up with ideas and I lose the opportunity.
This has even happened numerous times when I was getting IOIs from the chick.
Then I got the idea: maybe I should write down some convo topics
in my CellPhone!
This way, if I see a hot chick,
I don't have to brainstorm what to say on the spot.
I can simply whip-out my cellphone as if I'm receiving or sending
a textmessage.
When in reality, I'm looking at a note I wrote to myself
listing several topics of convo that I have previously rehearsed.
Hope this helps! ;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bvbidd

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Conversation is really overated.

Just make fun of her or something.

That's a lot better then looking up notes in the middle of an interaction.
 

Lust

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Bvbidd said:
Conversation is really overated.

Just make fun of her or something.

That's a lot better then looking up notes in the middle of an interaction.
Agreed.

Keep it light hearted, fun and spontaneous.

Forget about a conversation thread you thought of, last tuesday while you were flipping through a magazine, in the toilet taking a dump.

The only way you can train your mind at become quicker to respond and becoming sharper at this is going in field and testing yourself out.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Why waste space in your cell phone for conversation topics? Just carry a Bible with you and start quoting scriptures, there's tons of them.
 

COD

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GOOGLE GIRLFRIENDX its a hand held device that does just that, although there are like 10-20 cell phones services that offer text advice.

hmmmm thats a good invention.........TEXT COACHING OR VIRTUAL WINGMAN.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Rudra

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Take a photograph of your c0ck.. from a good angle, so it looks great, then take some pictures of the chick you are hanging out with. Show her the pics and "accidentally" stumble upon the one with your c0ck on it.

Not my tip, not my style (not at all), but a guy I know (mayor player...) is pulling this off and - as outlandish as it sounds - he scores with it.

Not as a conversation starter, of course. You got to know the girl some of course.
 
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