Ok so i was wondering about something last night that may or may not work with girls. My best friend who's a girl is pretty smart, and she really knows how to push people's buttons. I realized last night that she does a lot of listening to what people say (guys mostly), and using that to basically outsmart them by making fun of them or logically disprove what they're saying. I also realized that every guy that comes across her tries to fvck her, and doing what she does makes them want her even more. i was just wondering if you all thought that this would work on girls as well? Granted she is very good looking, but i know her attitude makes guys want her even more.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Using What Girls Say
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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What you can learn from this is to LISTEN and be AWARE of the women you pursue. It separates you from the morons who don't. If she happens to mention that she hates something that most guys would think that all women love, remember that. File it away for future use. You end up scoring big points.
You can also gather tidbits to defend yourself when you get into a fight. It takes a lot of practice but eventually you pick up on something, see the chink in her B.S. armor and bust her on it.
You can also gather tidbits to defend yourself when you get into a fight. It takes a lot of practice but eventually you pick up on something, see the chink in her B.S. armor and bust her on it.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
This approach tends to work mostly on guys for several reasons:Biggie said:
1) Men are more logical, in general, so using logic to argue with men and winning will trigger the competetive side of most men.
2) Hot women usually have the frame where the men are gonna chase after them and put up with anything, as long as there is hope she will "reward" him, like a good doggy for his supplicating behavior.
If you try that approach on a woman, she will not respond the same as a guy, and will most likely just dismiss you as a socially incompetent male who can't/won't communicate properly. It will only work if the woman already is very attracted to you, and she likes to be challenged by men.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Fallacy #1: Women have Boyfriends and Girlfriends. If you're not fukking her, you're her Girlfriend.Biggie said:
Welcome to the Matrix.Biggie said:
Yes. It's called seduction and it's an art you need to learn to perfect, however, it's only a woman's actions that prove intent and motivation NEVER words.Biggie said:
Law 9: Win Through Your Actions, Never through Argument
Any momentary triumph you think you have gained through argument is really a Pyrrhic victory: The resentment and ill will you stir up is stronger and lasts longer than any momentary change of opinion. It is much more powerful to get others to agree with you through your actions, without saying a word. Demonstrate, do not explicate.
Pay particular attention to the last part her and meditate on it. A Man's world is a world of ACTION, not work. Default for action, always!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.