Ok so i was wondering about something last night that may or may not work with girls. My best friend who's a girl is pretty smart, and she really knows how to push people's buttons. I realized last night that she does a lot of listening to what people say (guys mostly), and using that to basically outsmart them by making fun of them or logically disprove what they're saying. I also realized that every guy that comes across her tries to fvck her, and doing what she does makes them want her even more. i was just wondering if you all thought that this would work on girls as well? Granted she is very good looking, but i know her attitude makes guys want her even more.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Using What Girls Say
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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What you can learn from this is to LISTEN and be AWARE of the women you pursue. It separates you from the morons who don't. If she happens to mention that she hates something that most guys would think that all women love, remember that. File it away for future use. You end up scoring big points.
You can also gather tidbits to defend yourself when you get into a fight. It takes a lot of practice but eventually you pick up on something, see the chink in her B.S. armor and bust her on it.
You can also gather tidbits to defend yourself when you get into a fight. It takes a lot of practice but eventually you pick up on something, see the chink in her B.S. armor and bust her on it.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
This approach tends to work mostly on guys for several reasons:Biggie said:
1) Men are more logical, in general, so using logic to argue with men and winning will trigger the competetive side of most men.
2) Hot women usually have the frame where the men are gonna chase after them and put up with anything, as long as there is hope she will "reward" him, like a good doggy for his supplicating behavior.
If you try that approach on a woman, she will not respond the same as a guy, and will most likely just dismiss you as a socially incompetent male who can't/won't communicate properly. It will only work if the woman already is very attracted to you, and she likes to be challenged by men.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Fallacy #1: Women have Boyfriends and Girlfriends. If you're not fukking her, you're her Girlfriend.Biggie said:
Welcome to the Matrix.Biggie said:
Yes. It's called seduction and it's an art you need to learn to perfect, however, it's only a woman's actions that prove intent and motivation NEVER words.Biggie said:
Law 9: Win Through Your Actions, Never through Argument
Any momentary triumph you think you have gained through argument is really a Pyrrhic victory: The resentment and ill will you stir up is stronger and lasts longer than any momentary change of opinion. It is much more powerful to get others to agree with you through your actions, without saying a word. Demonstrate, do not explicate.
Pay particular attention to the last part her and meditate on it. A Man's world is a world of ACTION, not work. Default for action, always!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.