Is it me or does using the term "ex" not seem DJ? To me it almost seems as if you are using a old girlfriend as a status symbol by referring to her as a "ex". When I hear people say "that was my ex" or "my ex was hot" just seems afc almost as if you are still hooked to her. Anyone see were Iam coming from with this?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Using the term "ex"
- Thread starter blinkwatt
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I-am-someone
Senior Don Juan
I think it all depends on how she become that person's ex. Plenty of possibilities there, and a lot of them are very DJ, and a lot of them are very AFC. It's just a word 
Despite your comments,I have noticed that the top "playas" that I personally know do not use the term "ex". Your comment, "Give me a break, this is pathetic" is not needed,and is only going scare off new posters. I don't leave negative remarks to anyone on this board and neither should you.penguin said: