Is it me or does using the term "ex" not seem DJ? To me it almost seems as if you are using a old girlfriend as a status symbol by referring to her as a "ex". When I hear people say "that was my ex" or "my ex was hot" just seems afc almost as if you are still hooked to her. Anyone see were Iam coming from with this?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Using the term "ex"
- Thread starter blinkwatt
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I-am-someone
Senior Don Juan
I think it all depends on how she become that person's ex. Plenty of possibilities there, and a lot of them are very DJ, and a lot of them are very AFC. It's just a word 
Despite your comments,I have noticed that the top "playas" that I personally know do not use the term "ex". Your comment, "Give me a break, this is pathetic" is not needed,and is only going scare off new posters. I don't leave negative remarks to anyone on this board and neither should you.penguin said: