Using Parties to Pick up Chicks

[WORKEROUTER]

I've been partying about once a week lately, and there are a few things that I am wondering in terms of partying and picking up chicks.

Typically, when I go to a party, I end up getting drunk, or at least buzzed, fairly quickly. Because of this, I am totally loosened up and can approach and mingle with practically everyone, which I do. One problem, however, is that when I get in this state, I also become fairly rowdy and sometimes act ridiculous.

So last week, while drunk btw, I had my eyes on this one girl, who was also buzzed. I continued to go after her and eventually we were making out on the dude's couch. Of course I got her number later.

However, I feel weird calling her. First off, she was drunk that night, and so was I. Would it be weird to call her, now sober, and tell her we should go out? After all, the night was probably a blur in her eyes. Part of these feelings also arise from a slight inconfidence in myself that despite us making out and talking together, she might not actually be attracted to me, since she was drunk, and would not have normally felt that way in a sober state. One way I considered testing this was allowing her to call me, rather than the other way around, since we usually exchange numbers. Of course, this really doesn't work since I usually am the one who has to make the first call.

This is not an isolated case. In fact, I often get numbers from girls at parties but don't actually end up doing anything further with them, even if I DO end up giving them a call

As a result, parties have ended up being either a hit or miss deal for me. In other words, I either make it, that night, or I don't.

Any tips or suggestions in this issue? Does anyone else feel this way? And in terms of picking up chicks at parties, for other than one-night stands, any comments?

 

[steroidsrule]

sometimes its weird for me too bro but think about it this way.. you have nothing to lose and everything to gain by calling them... if they say no... then its the same result as not calling them...if they say yes... then bring the trojans and have fun

 

[DonMEgaHoss]

and tell her we should go out?

NO no no no...yeah you have nothing to lose except a good nights sleep ^_^
and getting drunk or buzzed has that effect on everyone though I dont get rowdy I get mellow.

 

[Haplo]

They're right you have nothing to lose by calling her. You have to throw yourself out there sometimes bro. If your that nervous about it just drink a couple beers and then call her. It seemed to work for you last time. In all seriousness though, call once and leave a message, she doesn't call you back then forget about it. She answers just say that you had a great time hanging out with her and you would love to do it again sometime....her response will be like: yea, it was fun............you: so then what do you think about friday....and so on. It's pretty easy if she is into you. Don't push through resistance if she gives you any. Calling a girl for the first time is like improv comedy, you first act then you react to what she gives you. Good luck.....give me a post so I know what happened.