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Master Don Juan
I've been partying about once a week lately, and there are a few things that I am wondering in terms of partying and picking up chicks.
Typically, when I go to a party, I end up getting drunk, or at least buzzed, fairly quickly. Because of this, I am totally loosened up and can approach and mingle with practically everyone, which I do. One problem, however, is that when I get in this state, I also become fairly rowdy and sometimes act ridiculous.
So last week, while drunk btw, I had my eyes on this one girl, who was also buzzed. I continued to go after her and eventually we were making out on the dude's couch. Of course I got her number later.
However, I feel weird calling her. First off, she was drunk that night, and so was I. Would it be weird to call her, now sober, and tell her we should go out? After all, the night was probably a blur in her eyes. Part of these feelings also arise from a slight inconfidence in myself that despite us making out and talking together, she might not actually be attracted to me, since she was drunk, and would not have normally felt that way in a sober state. One way I considered testing this was allowing her to call me, rather than the other way around, since we usually exchange numbers. Of course, this really doesn't work since I usually am the one who has to make the first call.
This is not an isolated case. In fact, I often get numbers from girls at parties but don't actually end up doing anything further with them, even if I DO end up giving them a call
As a result, parties have ended up being either a hit or miss deal for me. In other words, I either make it, that night, or I don't.
Any tips or suggestions in this issue? Does anyone else feel this way? And in terms of picking up chicks at parties, for other than one-night stands, any comments?
Typically, when I go to a party, I end up getting drunk, or at least buzzed, fairly quickly. Because of this, I am totally loosened up and can approach and mingle with practically everyone, which I do. One problem, however, is that when I get in this state, I also become fairly rowdy and sometimes act ridiculous.
So last week, while drunk btw, I had my eyes on this one girl, who was also buzzed. I continued to go after her and eventually we were making out on the dude's couch. Of course I got her number later.
However, I feel weird calling her. First off, she was drunk that night, and so was I. Would it be weird to call her, now sober, and tell her we should go out? After all, the night was probably a blur in her eyes. Part of these feelings also arise from a slight inconfidence in myself that despite us making out and talking together, she might not actually be attracted to me, since she was drunk, and would not have normally felt that way in a sober state. One way I considered testing this was allowing her to call me, rather than the other way around, since we usually exchange numbers. Of course, this really doesn't work since I usually am the one who has to make the first call.
This is not an isolated case. In fact, I often get numbers from girls at parties but don't actually end up doing anything further with them, even if I DO end up giving them a call
As a result, parties have ended up being either a hit or miss deal for me. In other words, I either make it, that night, or I don't.
Any tips or suggestions in this issue? Does anyone else feel this way? And in terms of picking up chicks at parties, for other than one-night stands, any comments?