"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Using Momentum in Pick up

Legendat24

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As a PUA getting the first one done is the hardest. I think an important quality to use in any pickup is momentum. From my experiences the more that you do the more you want to do. At the same time when you get on a roll you can build huge amounts of social power within yourself. You start feeling like you can do anything.

I find that when working, working out, gaming, and anything in life the more that you do the more you want to do. It's a weird phenomenon but it is one that works and we should use it to our advantage. I know that I have talked about it before but I want to hammer the point home over and over again in my mind.

In the last three days I've been blasting away at my theory on the foundational building blocks to success. I've been developing what I think are the key underlying principles to achieving success anywhere and I'm implementing my new thoughts into my game. I'll write that up soon. On that note the more I work at it the more I want to work at. It has also inspired me to write even more in my blog.

I think it as a human we are conditioned to really do whatever we do. So if you are not taking action and instead doing nothing your body and mind continually wants to do nothing. If your playing war craft all day and your comfortable doing it then that's all you want to do all day. My goal is to create massive amounts of moments in my business, my fitness, and love life . These are the fundamental pillars to happiness I believe.

It all comes down to the more we work at it the more we will work it. The other night I was having trouble approaching and to break out of my bad routine I started to build momentum by opening guys and girls with extremely simple things and ejecting. Once I had done that about 5 to 7 times I started to really open up and I got the flow going. Then I got into a great conversation with a super hot girl and got her number. Turning a crappy night into a good night.

This illustrated to me that you have to break out of the routine your in and start building momentum little bit by little bit. Then you build up to bigger chunks, but you have to do it quickly to maintain your momentum.

Legend
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJCorleone

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Nice write, and I agree wholesomely!
 

Allurre

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I think it as a human we are conditioned to really do whatever we do. So if you are not taking action and instead doing nothing your body and mind continually wants to do nothing. If your playing war craft all day and your comfortable doing it then that's all you want to do all day. My goal is to create massive amounts of moments in my business, my fitness, and love life . These are the fundamental pillars to happiness I believe.

I agree wholeheartedly . However.. you shouldn't really let the thought of collecting numbers from a hot girl fuel your happiness =)
 

Legendat24

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I think when ever we choose a course of action either to do something or not to do something, that its not specific to that one choice. Each choice is a direction. You choose a direction either to take action or not.
 
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