"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Using Momentum in Pick up

Legendat24

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As a PUA getting the first one done is the hardest. I think an important quality to use in any pickup is momentum. From my experiences the more that you do the more you want to do. At the same time when you get on a roll you can build huge amounts of social power within yourself. You start feeling like you can do anything.

I find that when working, working out, gaming, and anything in life the more that you do the more you want to do. It's a weird phenomenon but it is one that works and we should use it to our advantage. I know that I have talked about it before but I want to hammer the point home over and over again in my mind.

In the last three days I've been blasting away at my theory on the foundational building blocks to success. I've been developing what I think are the key underlying principles to achieving success anywhere and I'm implementing my new thoughts into my game. I'll write that up soon. On that note the more I work at it the more I want to work at. It has also inspired me to write even more in my blog.

I think it as a human we are conditioned to really do whatever we do. So if you are not taking action and instead doing nothing your body and mind continually wants to do nothing. If your playing war craft all day and your comfortable doing it then that's all you want to do all day. My goal is to create massive amounts of moments in my business, my fitness, and love life . These are the fundamental pillars to happiness I believe.

It all comes down to the more we work at it the more we will work it. The other night I was having trouble approaching and to break out of my bad routine I started to build momentum by opening guys and girls with extremely simple things and ejecting. Once I had done that about 5 to 7 times I started to really open up and I got the flow going. Then I got into a great conversation with a super hot girl and got her number. Turning a crappy night into a good night.

This illustrated to me that you have to break out of the routine your in and start building momentum little bit by little bit. Then you build up to bigger chunks, but you have to do it quickly to maintain your momentum.

Legend
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJCorleone

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Nice write, and I agree wholesomely!
 

Allurre

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I think it as a human we are conditioned to really do whatever we do. So if you are not taking action and instead doing nothing your body and mind continually wants to do nothing. If your playing war craft all day and your comfortable doing it then that's all you want to do all day. My goal is to create massive amounts of moments in my business, my fitness, and love life . These are the fundamental pillars to happiness I believe.

I agree wholeheartedly . However.. you shouldn't really let the thought of collecting numbers from a hot girl fuel your happiness =)
 

Legendat24

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I think when ever we choose a course of action either to do something or not to do something, that its not specific to that one choice. Each choice is a direction. You choose a direction either to take action or not.
 
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