"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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using military to an advantage?

mike_0678

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I'm enlisting in the marine corp and I'll be leaving in june when i graduate, is there a way i could use that to my advantage with out bragging...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Zod

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Well if you are joining the military for chicks, it's probably not the best way to invest your life.

However, if you are doing it for other reasons more power to you.

I've never really heard a girl say they love a man in uniform. I've only heard it on tv, and for all we know, that could be subliminal messaging from the army.

I'm sure some girls would think it's cool and would be a good conversation piece. However, don't come back with post-traumatic stress disorder; that definently won't get you girls.
 

Fitch

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Originally posted by mike_0678
I'm enlisting in the marine corp and I'll be leaving in june when i graduate, is there a way i could use that to my advantage with out bragging...
Me too! But, I am starting to doubt if it is for me.
 

08aisaac

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Well I was thinking about joining, but decided to persue the nerdy arts instead. lol. But one of my friends joined, and he came back, with a shaved head, and muscles, and the ability to beat the **** out of anyone. Chicks digged him major time even before he joined though.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Jerky Boi

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Man, more power to ya. I've never heard anyone here in town( I live next to a big Army base) that has never said they didn't like a man in uniform. It's definitely a big perk. More than likely, I'll be doing Air Force or Army ROTC within the next school year so I guess we'll both see if it helps pretty soon :D Good luck man.
 

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Originally posted by mike_0678
well the way i see it is that i'm gettin paid to be in the best shape of my life..
HAHA! that is so true. My dad was in the Air Force for 20 years, and he said thats when he was in the best shape of his life...
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by strams4ever
HAHA! that is so true. My dad was in the Air Force for 20 years, and he said thats when he was in the best shape of his life...
Youre also putting a price on your life. Anyway, as long as you dont brag about it and be a pretentious bastard then itll be straight.
 
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