mike_0678
Don Juan
I'm enlisting in the marine corp and I'll be leaving in june when i graduate, is there a way i could use that to my advantage with out bragging...
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
using military to an advantage?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Well if you are joining the military for chicks, it's probably not the best way to invest your life.
However, if you are doing it for other reasons more power to you.
I've never really heard a girl say they love a man in uniform. I've only heard it on tv, and for all we know, that could be subliminal messaging from the army.
I'm sure some girls would think it's cool and would be a good conversation piece. However, don't come back with post-traumatic stress disorder; that definently won't get you girls.
However, if you are doing it for other reasons more power to you.
I've never really heard a girl say they love a man in uniform. I've only heard it on tv, and for all we know, that could be subliminal messaging from the army.
I'm sure some girls would think it's cool and would be a good conversation piece. However, don't come back with post-traumatic stress disorder; that definently won't get you girls.
strams4ever
Don Juan
Well as long as your not a total hardass its great. Good luck
Well I was thinking about joining, but decided to persue the nerdy arts instead. lol. But one of my friends joined, and he came back, with a shaved head, and muscles, and the ability to beat the **** out of anyone. Chicks digged him major time even before he joined though.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Man, more power to ya. I've never heard anyone here in town( I live next to a big Army base) that has never said they didn't like a man in uniform. It's definitely a big perk. More than likely, I'll be doing Air Force or Army ROTC within the next school year so I guess we'll both see if it helps pretty soon 
Good luck man.
Good luck man.mike_0678
Don Juan
well the way i see it is that i'm gettin paid to be in the best shape of my life..
strams4ever
Don Juan
HAHA! that is so true. My dad was in the Air Force for 20 years, and he said thats when he was in the best shape of his life...
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Youre also putting a price on your life. Anyway, as long as you dont brag about it and be a pretentious bastard then itll be straight.