"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Using humor

Dannyrt34

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I suck at telling jokes, but people say I'm still a pretty funny guy.

The thing is, It's not that I say funny stuff, I use actions, or voice tone to make normal things sound funny. I watch comedians such as Dane Cook, and realized that he is the same way. It's not the same just listening to Dane Cook on CD. It's just not as funny as actually WATCHING him, the reason for this is that when he does his routine, he uses his body language, and that's what makes him hilarious. I highly suggest you watch one of Dane Cook's performances, watch things as simple as how he walks around on the stage. I even used a few of his jokes on a date, for example:

I took a girl to the movies, and we sat down and commented on how comfortable the seats are. I then said "look baby! the armrest, it goes up! See we got a nice place to put our arms, and then if i do this (raises armlift) You can blow me if the movie is bad." I said this in a joking, sarcastic tone and she ate it up. It was all in the voicetone though, I don't recommend trying that one unless you can practice it with the right tone.

Alright guys, now I put this in the discussion form because I want to see other examples or tips on using humor while out on a date.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Panda 2000

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Dannyrt34 said:
I said this in a joking, sarcastic tone and she ate it up.
Right there at the movie theater? Talk about horny chicks, huh?
 

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Panda 2000 said:
Right there at the movie theater? Talk about horny chicks, huh?
Haha it really wasn't that big of a deal, you have to say it like it's no big deal, so your girl don't take it too seriously. I just got one of those playful hits on the shoulder and she told me to shutup in a playful voice. Then I say "Oh im kiddin baby" and leaned in for a kiss. It went pretty well.

Lol, seriously guys if you have HBO on demand, go into there and look for Dane Cook's vicious cycle, it's free if you have HBO.
 

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Humor isn't all about "jokes". Like you were saying, sometimes the funniest thing could be in your body language. The way you walk, a crazy reaction to a bad smell, the weird noise you make when you laugh. You don't have to say something to be funny.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Ace of Flames said:
Humor isn't all about "jokes". Like you were saying, sometimes the funniest thing could be in your body language. The way you walk, a crazy reaction to a bad smell, the weird noise you make when you laugh. You don't have to say something to be funny.
Very true. :up:
 
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