"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Using hb5 to get hb8s and 9s

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DJnoob

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I don't really have many friends like 3-6 good ones and 2-3 that i can always hang out with. Most of them AFCs. The ones who love anime and starwars type. I finally grew out of that last year when I realized everything. I was a really bad looking guy my whole life.. really really low self esteem. I didn't really like going out as much because of the way I looked. If you were ever in this situation, im sure u know what it felt like. You always felt you're last in everything. The rock bottom of rock bottoms. It was as good as not existing to be quite honest


But now I look better. Lost weight, feel better. I can talk to women alot better.

Now that im 24, I feel like my REAL LIFE is just starting now with lets just say NO PAST. kinda like a living in a new city. Im soo ready to meet new people now

So, how would you guys build your network of women friends. Do you start with hb5 first and use them to get to hb7 and 8s and possibly 9s?

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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happyfrog

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hi, you can start building your network of female friends with hb9 this way it will expand faster and you don't have to use people you're not interested in.
 
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Phoenix_of_the_ashes

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The way I see it, the rating that we give a woman is pretty independant from the type of guy that she wants, so no, you dont have to "work yourself up", just have fun and go after exactly what you want.
 
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intha_burbz

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i just try and stay in touch with friendly girls that like me. even if im not interested in them for dating its still very differnet from talking to guys and you can learn and practice stuff on them
 
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