"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Using hb5 to get hb8s and 9s

DJnoob

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I don't really have many friends like 3-6 good ones and 2-3 that i can always hang out with. Most of them AFCs. The ones who love anime and starwars type. I finally grew out of that last year when I realized everything. I was a really bad looking guy my whole life.. really really low self esteem. I didn't really like going out as much because of the way I looked. If you were ever in this situation, im sure u know what it felt like. You always felt you're last in everything. The rock bottom of rock bottoms. It was as good as not existing to be quite honest


But now I look better. Lost weight, feel better. I can talk to women alot better.

Now that im 24, I feel like my REAL LIFE is just starting now with lets just say NO PAST. kinda like a living in a new city. Im soo ready to meet new people now

So, how would you guys build your network of women friends. Do you start with hb5 first and use them to get to hb7 and 8s and possibly 9s?

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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happyfrog

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hi, you can start building your network of female friends with hb9 this way it will expand faster and you don't have to use people you're not interested in.
 

Phoenix_of_the_ashes

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The way I see it, the rating that we give a woman is pretty independant from the type of guy that she wants, so no, you dont have to "work yourself up", just have fun and go after exactly what you want.
 

intha_burbz

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i just try and stay in touch with friendly girls that like me. even if im not interested in them for dating its still very differnet from talking to guys and you can learn and practice stuff on them
 
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