"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Using direct game on groups of women

Cpt Caveman

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I've been making the transition to a more natural direct game. The only problem is using it on a group of women. The times I've done it the friend/friends had ****blocked me. At times I was able to overcome it but is there any real solution?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Natch

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Well , what are you doing when you open groups?

I know guys who open groups with stuff like "You guys seemed cool and I wanted to meet you" which always seems to me as being a bit L_A_M_E.
And it's probably not natural anyways cos natural woulda been "I saw you guys and one , maybe two of you at best are fcukable , so now I have to talk to the rest of you warpigs to get to them".
 

Cpt Caveman

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Just walking up and expressing genuine interest in one particular girl.

But I guess you are just going to have to accomodate her friends before her.
 

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select your target, then ignore

Hi Caveman,

Figure out which girl you really want, then put her out of your mind. This is the easy part. Concentrate on the anchors -- find SOMETHING interesting about them, the way they dressed or their hair. Compliment that. It's OK to express interest in the friends and boost their egos -- comes off good to the target and wins over the ****-blockers. Makes you seem like Mr. Compliment. Ignore the target for a good 3-4 minuts. Then, when you neg the target, even more effective. You've already hit it off with the pigs, they like you, but now the target isn't getting the same love. She'll come you YOU for the same treatment you gave the others. And because you started on the easy ones, the desparate ones, you're more relaxed in gathering the facts, anecdotes, and ancillary data needed to game the target effectively.
 

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Don't mack the pigs. It's too suspicious, unless you have NO value yourself. (i.e. you're ugly, out of shape, no good at conversations, etc)...if you mack straight on the pigs and display any skill, you either generate suspicion ("What is he doing macking on the fat girls? He can do better.") or just lower your own value. Game the 7s and 8s until the 9s take notice.

Works with larger groups anyway. Smaller groups feel "diminished" if one of their friends runs off with a guy and the rest don't get any. Best to have a wing to keep them engaged.

Larger groups, if one disappears, there's still enough energy to keep the group going.

Pairs? Fvck'f I know. Unless you've got a wing that can actually get the other girl interested, make a connection, get the digits, and pick it up one-on-one.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rollo Tomassi

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Unless you've got the looks to pull it off, direct game on a group is suicide. Direct game on a solo target is questionable enough even under good conditions. Tyler Durden method is tough for guys to pull off in an approach, particularly for guys without the looks or are just starting to get comfortable making approaches. I've seen it work, but rarely. More often than not it ends up coming off as desperate if you hesitate for a second and this is compounded in a group dynamic since you have to entertain the whole group.
 
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