Using Conan o Brian's conversation style on a date

[verysuave]

just wondering if you guys think that would be good.

The topic is all about the chick, asking her questions about herself and at the same time making fun of her.

VS

mystery's style of conversation where you have to always "SAY SOMETHING INTERESTING". It just seems like with the mystery method, the guy is the one who has to TRY

 

[Ace of Flames]

That's because the guy IS the one that has to try.

But if you're smart, you keep the girl talking about herself most of the time and its not hard. All you have to do is direct the conversation.

Oh, and Conan O'Brian acts like a spaz, at least on his show. That won't get you a girl.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

just wondering if you guys think that would be good.

The topic is all about the chick, asking her questions about herself and at the same time making fun of her.

VS

mystery's style of conversation where you have to always "SAY SOMETHING INTERESTING". It just seems like with the mystery method, the guy is the one who has to TRY

So how would you display your value, ragging on the girl?

 

[verysuave]

Can you expalain what you mean by "displaying your value". COnan O Brian's way of convo is a little extreme. Of course im thinking of only using 20% of his convo style

 

[Ace of Flames]

Conan is an entertainer. If you try to emulate him, you'll be the little dancing monkey for any girl you try to chat up. He's too active, TOO funny.

 

[verysuave]

OK, Craig Killborne's style. Not Conan

 

[Ace of Flames]

Craig isn't on the late late show anymore, right? Its that British dude now.

Look man, maybe you shouldn't be looking at talk shows for inspiration? Lol.

 

[Obsidian]

I think Conan is lame, but you're definitely onto something. Maybe the Jay Leno style instead.

Definitely don't talk much about yourself, and definitely don't try very hard to entertain.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Can you expalain what you mean by "displaying your value". COnan O Brian's way of convo is a little extreme. Of course im thinking of only using 20% of his convo style

Alright, frankly; why would a woman want to talk to you or give you her attention?

 

[Obsidian]

umm, because he's a man. duh

 

[reset]

Unless you've got the cash to hire Conan O'Brien to come entertain the girl, you're going to have to be yourself.

I think it's fun to be genuinely interested in the girl, let her yap about herself, and tease her along the way, which shows you're willing to take what she says seriously but at the same time you don't take her, yourself, or the situation too seriously either. You find little things to tease her about and from that if she's interested she will try to qualify herself.

The moment you're thinking about how you should act or the way you should say something (other than knowing you want to have a light, fun, playful time) you're dead.

 

[bob2007]

I love Conan's show, the guy's hilarious. I don't laugh much at Leno's jokes.

I think your analysis works. I try to do something as described. But trouble is how do you change from being comical to being attractive to her sexually, instead of just being a funny guy that can have a good convo?

 

[Last Man Standing]

Interesting fact - Conan graduated from Harvard - he is not a dim-wit - actually he is quick witted!

 

[Randallpink83]

Interesting fact - Conan graduated from Harvard - he is not a dim-wit - actually he is quick witted!

quick-witted is an understatement... the guy deserves his spot.

as does Jay Leno, I have seen him spit out some speed blinding liners. Although Leno makes a big deal when he does it, like "Everyone clap and cheer for my brilliancy I just gave you.. cause you wont see it again for another few minutes". When on the other side Conan is relentless and unstoppable in his comebacks and his comparisons etc... they roll one on top of the other! The guy is a master of HIS style.

But who knows how "off the Cuff" these guys really are, could be pre-planned.

But Conan is EXTREMELY egotistical... Thats his humor. He is either building himself up or completely tearing himself down. its 90% 'Me, Me, Me'.


....so if you want to come off as an egotistical maniac on 5 cups of coffee, then by all means

I'm just kidding, Conan is a natural. Chicks would love him. Do love him. If you had half the charm and wit, then hats off to you my friend.... just don't be so self centered as he is, cause thats simply he selling point for an audience

 

[SharinganUser]

I think you should use your own style. I don't even know what you are saying. Conversation style is not measurable, so how can you use 20% of it???

Why don't you be natural arround her and say what comes into your mind? Fuk using some other guys personality, use your own, it's the one that suits you best.