"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Using a text message you got from a chick for an opener

stalluproar

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So I am out sarging and I get a series of text messages from a girl who is obsessed with me. Here is the context of the texts:

"Do you ever wanna get naked and run through a sprinkler in october"

"I am so frickin drunk will you text me"

"I guess i just wish u were here"

"I want to know if you want me"

"I am way 2 flippin drunk, 2 bad u r not here can u text me back"

Now when I got these texts, I went up to the nearest women in the area, ask them if they would text a guy like that and show them the text I got from this girl. I wasn't successful in getting any numbers. Any one do something similar to this? Any other ideas how to present these once you get them and in the future when I want an opinion from a girl?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"Do you ever wanna get naked and run through a sprinkler in october"

Ha love that, brilliant!
 

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Hah you should text her back with "October? No way, let's try December"
 

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Hm, I would use those as an interesting conversation topic later in the pickup to aviod them thinking you're just showing off.
 
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