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Using a mutual friend for a hookup

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I recently met this a married couple who I'm beginning to hang out with more frequently. I've taken boating trips with them, went to a few festivals with them and a few other friends. They have a very hot and single friend that I've seen in their Facebook photos. Checking her page, she's single and posted some graphic the other day about "why I'm still single" which means she's probably been on the prowl, lonely, etc.

So what is the best way to approach my new friends about this girl without coming off creeperish, stalkerish, desparate, etc. They know I'm single at the moment...and they haven't tried to pair us up yet...but I want to bring it up.

Am I crossing any boundaries here? Advice on how to set this in motion?

Thanks!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I don't think you are "crossing any boundaries."

I think most couples would be happy to introduce you to a single friend. First, very casually ask the couple "Who's the girl that..." Keep it casual so it sounds like curiousity, not you stalking her online lol. Then try the following...

1. Pick an activity that you like to do with this couple that you are either skilled at and/or passionate about. This is key. You need to "shine" there.

2. IF you are on very good terms with the wife in this couple, tell her you would like to meet her friend xyz. Ask if they can invite her to this event. Otherwise, talk to the guy and have him set it up with wifey.

The worst that could happen is they don't follow up on it and "forget" to invite her.

The best that can happen is you meet this chick via an extended social circle with no cawkblocks.
 
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Mike32ct said:
I don't think you are "crossing any boundaries."

I think most couples would be happy to introduce you to a single friend. First, very casually ask the couple "Who's the girl that..." Keep it casual so it sounds like curiousity, not you stalking her online lol. Then try the following...

1. Pick an activity that you like to do with this couple that you are either skilled at and/or passionate about. This is key. You need to "shine" there.

2. IF you are on very good terms with the wife in this couple, tell her you would like to meet her friend xyz. Ask if they can invite her to this event. Otherwise, talk to the guy and have him set it up with wifey.

The worst that could happen is they don't follow up on it and "forget" to invite her.

The best that can happen is you meet this chick via an extended social circle with no cawkblocks.
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Great advice! Thanks.
 
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