“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Using a mutual friend for a hookup

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I recently met this a married couple who I'm beginning to hang out with more frequently. I've taken boating trips with them, went to a few festivals with them and a few other friends. They have a very hot and single friend that I've seen in their Facebook photos. Checking her page, she's single and posted some graphic the other day about "why I'm still single" which means she's probably been on the prowl, lonely, etc.

So what is the best way to approach my new friends about this girl without coming off creeperish, stalkerish, desparate, etc. They know I'm single at the moment...and they haven't tried to pair us up yet...but I want to bring it up.

Am I crossing any boundaries here? Advice on how to set this in motion?

Thanks!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I don't think you are "crossing any boundaries."

I think most couples would be happy to introduce you to a single friend. First, very casually ask the couple "Who's the girl that..." Keep it casual so it sounds like curiousity, not you stalking her online lol. Then try the following...

1. Pick an activity that you like to do with this couple that you are either skilled at and/or passionate about. This is key. You need to "shine" there.

2. IF you are on very good terms with the wife in this couple, tell her you would like to meet her friend xyz. Ask if they can invite her to this event. Otherwise, talk to the guy and have him set it up with wifey.

The worst that could happen is they don't follow up on it and "forget" to invite her.

The best that can happen is you meet this chick via an extended social circle with no cawkblocks.
 
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Mike32ct said:
I don't think you are "crossing any boundaries."

I think most couples would be happy to introduce you to a single friend. First, very casually ask the couple "Who's the girl that..." Keep it casual so it sounds like curiousity, not you stalking her online lol. Then try the following...

1. Pick an activity that you like to do with this couple that you are either skilled at and/or passionate about. This is key. You need to "shine" there.

2. IF you are on very good terms with the wife in this couple, tell her you would like to meet her friend xyz. Ask if they can invite her to this event. Otherwise, talk to the guy and have him set it up with wifey.

The worst that could happen is they don't follow up on it and "forget" to invite her.

The best that can happen is you meet this chick via an extended social circle with no cawkblocks.
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Great advice! Thanks.
 
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