"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Uses for block of land?

AtomicDog

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Hey

I rent half a house and there's a very large unused block of land out my back door.

Any interesting/novel ideas what to do with it?

The owner keeps the grass cut, theres harldy ever anyone there and it feels like its going to waste.

Some ideas I had:

soccer,
cricket (mightnt work because the ground is uneven)
car party (have eveyrone bring their car and park it there)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ace of Flames

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Since you don't own the land, you'd have to ask the owner before adding to it. I'd say just throw parties and stuff out there. Play frisbee or something.
 

KillaCam

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I've always liked the concept behind a destruction derby.

But anything to do with drinking and socialising sounds on the money. Car party it is!
 

Bible_Belt

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You could try and buy both pieces of property, merging them. The value of the two together should be more than the sum of each individual value.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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