"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Victory Unlimited

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Yo Troops,


I call myself... VICTORY UNLIMITED!

The reason I chose that name was because, years ago, I had a history of taking a half-azzed approach to my life. I used to live by the motto of "it's not whether you win or lose, it's how you play the game."

After getting my azz kicked by life and especially in dealing romantically with WOMEN, I did some soul searching, bible reading (yes, the REAL one), and people watching.

The results were that I wrote a couple of books. One of which was an advice book on dating. I interviewed lots of people and was surprised at the mindsets of people out here in the dating world.

I learned a lot, had many epiphanies, and actually helped a lot of people in the process. And based on the eye-opening Biitch Slap I received from that experience, I knew that in order to make it out here, I had to change my deeplys ingrained AFC mindset.

So now my motto is "Winning isn't everything...it's the ONLY thing!"

I recognized that the pursuit of all things in my life that were important to me would be met with violent resistance---because that's the way life is.

That's when I decided to jerk the slack out of myself and declare WAR on all the obstacles in my life that stood in my way. That's when I realized that it would be a BATTLE to get the things (and WOMEN) that I wanted in my life. That's when I knew that for many of us, living a good life IS NOT a birthright, but a REWARD for MANNING UP and conquering all the things in our lives that hold us back.

And although I am still a RELUCTANT SOLDIER, once I decided it was time to FIGHT, I also decided I would ALWAYS fight TO WIN.


Hence, my signature tag line listed below...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Spike_the_Dragon

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I was dubed "spike" back in highschool for drugging my best friend's neighbor's dog with his grandmother's antidepressants... then running around the dog's owners' backyard with a steak tied to my a$$.:cheer:

I think my friend still has the video somewhere...
 

jackie_legs

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Mine is from a movie call kangaroo Jack. Well this one time I was watching it with my little brother and this movie made me crack up every second. and anyways in the movie these two dudes named this kangaroo Jackie legs. I thought it was a funny name so I decided to use it haha.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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avrilishot

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I got mine beacause I have the biggest crush on Avril lavigne, I want her so bad. so thats how I got avrilishot pretty simple.
 

A-Unit

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Re:

I had gf in texas back in 2002-2003 and she was very much a "J LO" type. So much so that I went to the club and was informed a guy was knifed the night before and I might to watch out being a "gringo" and all dating a Spanish girl. This prompted my "fascination" of her buns, and wanting to up it by labeling it. I ripped off G-unit and was going to label her backside and clothing up with A-Unit, or Andrew-Unit. She'd let me know her buns were possession of my "squad". And I've kept it in fantasy leagues and other sn's.



A-Unit
 

GirlCrazy

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When I was a kid, the doctor took out the little rubber mallet they use on your knee and said "Now if I tap your knee and your leg moves, it means that you're girl crazy."

Heh, at 7 I thought I had a medical condition that made me like girls.
 

RedPill

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Mine is fairly obvious. Matrix reference. "Take the red pill..." I'm all about trying to get people to take the red pill, so they open their eyes and wake up to what's going on around them.
 

DJ_in_making

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Nobody said:
I am a... I'll create a new one when I become Somebody.
In that case, wouldn't changing your name be a start?

Wow, I didn't know you guys put so much effort in your names. I would think y'all just typed the first thing that came into your minds.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Vintovka

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Got mine from:

Vintovka Obraztsa 1891/1930r
Snayperskaya Vintovka Dragunova

Gun stuff, I would fancy a guess that translates as 'rifle' from Russian.
 

Unregistered

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When I registered, the default username in the textbox was "Unregistered". Insert laziness and lack of imagination and you've got it figured out.
 

SELF-MASTERY

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SELF-MASTERY

uum like DUH what could that mean?????
 

killbill

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when I was registering I couldnt think of a user name. so I was looking around in my room for sugesstions and I seen my killbill poster so thats how I got the name, haha.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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grinder

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Skateboarding: When you grind your truck (the "axel" of a skateboard) on the edge of anything you are grinding.
 
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Doggystyle

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Oh wow my threads taken off! I'm over whelmed....sniff!

There is a lot of effort put into some user names, it like there were researched!

One thing about user names is that it constantly reminds you every time you log on, i'm always thinking about doing some one doggystyle when ever I log on! For people with negative user names I would suggest changing them.

Right I know there are more of you not contributing the meaning of your user names, can some one pm me to tell me how to make one of those linky things at the bottom of posts, that link to this thread?

Thanks in advance!
 

Create Reality

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I chose my username to be Create Reality, as an affirmation to remind myself that I choose my existance. I can create my own reality, choose how I think, and ultimately choose how I live.
 

Hot Ice

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Hot as fire, cool as ice...


yeah, it's stupid as hell :cheer:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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