Don't be ridiculous, all women know EXACTLY how to get the guy they want. Most men are so simple minded all it takes is for you to flirt with them and make yourselves available. If he is interested he will take the bait, and with most guys, all you have to do is fvck him and then he is yours.
The problem is if he is too easy to get, chicks start losing interest in him. If he is in demand, then he is harder to get... which makes him more interesting. But when you land this hard to get, in demand guy, chicks become insecure that another chick will steal him. So the woman, nags the fvck out of what used to be an awesome guy... until he is beaten into something no other chick wants... then what happens... the chick that broke him, no longer is attracted to him, so he gets dumped.
Advice for chicks: If you find a man that you love... do not try to change him, because what he turns into may not be anything you want to sleep with. If you lose him to another chick, no problem... you're a chick getting another guy is easy. If what he is doing bothers you so much you can not stand it anymore, then dump him... do this before you break him... if not for him then the next chick he will find himself with.
Advice for dudes: Never let a chick change you... you will be sowing the seeds of your own future destruction. I'm not saying be a self destructive @ss. But do not let her tell you what friends to have, or what music to like, or that you work out too much, or your hobbies are 'stupid'. You tell her if it bothers he so much she should go find another guy... She might just do that... and the next relationship she will be in will be some spineless fool who will kiss her butt and do whatever she wants... she will dump him in a few months and be back.