Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
It's not 95% looks
).I don’t give two craps about her job. Her finances should only be having enough self-control not to spend everything. And intelligence insofar as decent grades in high school and past that I couldn’t give a **** (only to help with kids). Classiness is only to the extent that I don’t want her to be a slob lol, but she doesn’t have to have a stick up her ass (unless she’s the opposite of classy and is kinky instead
I can say the same for myself. But I swear to you, it deals with location more than anything.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
thats how society made it. it started from "men making first move" and "men being gentlemans" and now you rarely see a woman that will date someone who earns less than her
A woman should be doing this out of the necessity to survive in life, but be willing to surrender it once she enters a fixed relationship where she lives with the man.
I find that most women are just naturally vulnerable, at least when they're younger. Given that you've been here since the early 2000s (putting you in your late 30s or older), you've been with enough guys that you're naturally going to be less vulnerable and have your guard up. That is just how it goes for women who don't find a LTR or marriage in their early to mid-20s.
Here's the reality of the situation... You're going to have to make more moves as you get older (at least initially). Men in your age range are still going to be interested in women who are in their 20s, and some of them will be able to date those women. You're at what is probably the worst age for a single woman. You're too old to be turning heads, and you're too young to be a simple companion for an elderly gentleman. You will NEED to put in the effort to date men.
You may have to politely tell him that it is his job as the man to make decisions. That may be enough. If he doesn't want to make the decisions, then he isn't much of a man or he's not very interested in you.
A smart man realizes that there's more to a woman than looks though. Good looking women are a dime a dozen on say, a college campus or while you're in high school or anywhere else you can find young adults or teenagers in large numbers
your single cause your a ****
You don't think a woman can like you for who you are?
Don't be ridiculous, all women know EXACTLY how to get the guy they want. Most men are so simple minded all it takes is for you to flirt with them and make yourselves available. If he is interested he will take the bait, and with most guys, all you have to do is fvck him and then he is yours.
