"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Use your quiet time!

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Syren

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It struck me today while on the train that many of us can be making better use of those moments in life where it feels like we are waiting around for something good to happen.

But how is this possible Mr Syren?

How many of us regularly commute on the train, or find ourselves listening to music while travelling? I find it is in these moments I am at my most inspired, the sun comes out from behind the clouds and I feel alive. Take a journal, notepad or even use your phone's calendar function to remind yourself of something. If you think of a routine, a business idea, ANYTHING don't let the moment of inspiration pass you by.

Inspiration is like a river that runs regardless of how we react to it. We can choose to take advantage of inspiration when it happens.

Savour the moments of good feeling
Chew on the sensation of enjoying life
Revel in your conviction and INSISTENCE that you have the POWER to change your life.

Every second you exist you have the potential to turn a passing idea, into something that really matters, you can change your life, someone else's life, or even the world. Let yourself achieve, push for success, it's waiting for you with open arms.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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flippinfreak

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I get my best ideas as I lay in bed trying to fall asleep.

When I first found Sosuave it dissapeared, but it's baaaaack.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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