"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Use of cannabis in the treatment of psychological diseases

PeterGrinspoon

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The role of cannabis currently plays in psychotherapeutic practice is very complex. Many patients feel stigmatized enough just because of their illness and fear that taking cannabis could only increase this stigmatization. However, everyone working in the health sector is obliged to protect their patients' private data and to refrain from evaluating their lifestyle. Conversely, it is highly recommended for patients to have an honest discussion about the use of cannabis before going into a session with a new therapist so that it is clear in advance what the parties' position on the plant is.

Therapy should always give you the opportunity to open yourself up to a health professional. Any therapist who is worth the money should at least understand what your relationship with cannabis looks like before making his judgment. Especially because cannabis is much safer than other drugs that patients sometimes resort to in emergency situations, psychotherapists would be well-advised not to generally condemn the herb.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Kotaix

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what kind of psychological disease? Are we talking anxiety? People with the kind of anxiety that makes them feel stigmatized might feel a lot worse if they take cannabis since it tends to amplify self-reflection.
 
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