Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Use of cannabis in the treatment of psychological diseases

PeterGrinspoon

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The role of cannabis currently plays in psychotherapeutic practice is very complex. Many patients feel stigmatized enough just because of their illness and fear that taking cannabis could only increase this stigmatization. However, everyone working in the health sector is obliged to protect their patients' private data and to refrain from evaluating their lifestyle. Conversely, it is highly recommended for patients to have an honest discussion about the use of cannabis before going into a session with a new therapist so that it is clear in advance what the parties' position on the plant is.

Therapy should always give you the opportunity to open yourself up to a health professional. Any therapist who is worth the money should at least understand what your relationship with cannabis looks like before making his judgment. Especially because cannabis is much safer than other drugs that patients sometimes resort to in emergency situations, psychotherapists would be well-advised not to generally condemn the herb.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Kotaix

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what kind of psychological disease? Are we talking anxiety? People with the kind of anxiety that makes them feel stigmatized might feel a lot worse if they take cannabis since it tends to amplify self-reflection.
 
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