"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Use of cannabis in the treatment of psychological diseases

PeterGrinspoon

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The role of cannabis currently plays in psychotherapeutic practice is very complex. Many patients feel stigmatized enough just because of their illness and fear that taking cannabis could only increase this stigmatization. However, everyone working in the health sector is obliged to protect their patients' private data and to refrain from evaluating their lifestyle. Conversely, it is highly recommended for patients to have an honest discussion about the use of cannabis before going into a session with a new therapist so that it is clear in advance what the parties' position on the plant is.

Therapy should always give you the opportunity to open yourself up to a health professional. Any therapist who is worth the money should at least understand what your relationship with cannabis looks like before making his judgment. Especially because cannabis is much safer than other drugs that patients sometimes resort to in emergency situations, psychotherapists would be well-advised not to generally condemn the herb.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Kotaix

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what kind of psychological disease? Are we talking anxiety? People with the kind of anxiety that makes them feel stigmatized might feel a lot worse if they take cannabis since it tends to amplify self-reflection.
 
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