"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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US soliders attract women easier?

picard

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Have you guys notice that US soldiers have little difficulty in finding a nice woman to settle down? Civilians men, in contrast, have significant difficulty in finding any woman period.


Did the US army invented some sort of program or pheromone to attract women so they would marry the soldiers? Am I missing some awesmoe secret ????:confused: :(
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by picard
Have you guys notice that US soldiers have little difficulty in finding a nice woman to settle down? Civilians men, in contrast, have significant difficulty in finding any woman period.


Did the US army invented some sort of program or pheromone to attract women so they would marry the soldiers? Am I missing some awesmoe secret ????:confused: :(

Yes, you are missing something.

People in the army tend to be poor.

Poor people tend to get married/have babies much younger than people with money.

It's not like these guys are dating playboy bunnies with PhDs ...

peace
 

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Thats two threads on the same topic, both a waste of everyone's time. Go join the military if it bothers you so much.
 

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Pickard,
I was in Navy Reserves and despite what you may think, the vast majority of women in military are NOT hotties nor are the wives of military men. JMO!!

Wanna wear a uniform AND be paid a decent wage? Try being a cop!
 

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Originally posted by picard
Have you guys notice that US soldiers have little difficulty in finding a nice woman to settle down?

I'm sure there's not a whole lot has changed since I was in active duty. I'd say MOST military wives tend to blow up in size in time, if they aren't already heavy. First, define "a nice woman"? Picard, I don't know where you get these "facts".
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dr. Zaius, Dr. Zaius, oh Dr. Zaius,
Dr. Zaius, Dr. Zaius, oh Dr. Zaius,
Dr. Zaius, Dr. Zaius, oh oh oh Dr. Zaius."
 

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Originally posted by picard
Have you guys notice that US soldiers have little difficulty in finding a nice woman to settle down? Civilians men, in contrast, have significant difficulty in finding any woman period.


Did the US army invented some sort of program or pheromone to attract women so they would marry the soldiers? Am I missing some awesmoe secret ????:confused: :(
All the hot girls i know complain that they're sick of military guys.
 

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Why would you want someone who wants to exclusively date and marry a military man??

With the military you always get stability. And the military pays for everything. And if he dies, you get a check. If he's injured, you get a check. They get good loans. But like I said, they don't have to do much to reap in the benefits.

I used to be jealous of those dudes in clubs. Especially at this place called The Dome. They always had women with em. Even the frail dudes. But after I finally got my thing together (job, car, apartment = responsibility) I realized I could give a F less, about some girl sweating a soldier who makes the money of an E5 (Gov. pay scale).

They're just getting what they want the fast way.
 
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