"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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US cities that have a lot of attractive brunettes, any idea?

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For some reason I am hooked on to Brunettes, not the Latina or Middle Eastern kind but more of the European kind like Kat Dennings or Cobie Smulders. Eastern European ones like Sandra Romain do it for me too, hooked up with this Romanian girl recently and it was great!!!!

Have the best makeouts and sex with these kinds of women, I am just into them. Gingers and Blondes don't really do it for me anymore.

Any ideas what are some good cities for me? It seems like where I live every girl dyes her hair blond and going out there are real life barbie dolls everywhere. Not my thing.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I would say los Angeles but new york has a lot of European brunette chicks.. also new Jersey.
 

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Los Angeles? Heard that place was loaded with barbie dolls all over the place aka the California Blonde stereotype. I can't agree with you on that, there have to be better cities than LA.
 

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Benjaymin said:
Los Angeles? Heard that place was loaded with barbie dolls all over the place aka the California Blonde stereotype. I can't agree with you on that, there have to be better cities than LA.
nope. i lived in l.a my whole life. ive seein som really beautiful brunettes(probably not european) specially around hollywood blvd and sunset strip, santa monica, venice, malibu, etc

but like i said for european brunnetes new jersey or new york is loaded.
 

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Jair213 said:
nope. i lived in l.a my whole life. ive seein som really beautiful brunettes(probably not european) specially around hollywood blvd and sunset strip, santa monica, venice, malibu, etc

but like i said for european brunnetes new jersey or new york is loaded.
So Southern Cal isn't loaded with bimbos, correct?

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To Iceberg: Not true, I used to be in a college town which was LOADED with Bottle Blondes and Blondes, worst place ever. Brunettes were rare as **** there. Would not live in such an area again, I am just not into blondes.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Brunettes are everywhere, dude. I don't know that you need to move to a "brunette city" to find a brunette. Just move to ANY city, and talk to the girls you like.

Jesus, this forum sometimes....
 
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