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US cities that have a lot of attractive brunettes, any idea?

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For some reason I am hooked on to Brunettes, not the Latina or Middle Eastern kind but more of the European kind like Kat Dennings or Cobie Smulders. Eastern European ones like Sandra Romain do it for me too, hooked up with this Romanian girl recently and it was great!!!!

Have the best makeouts and sex with these kinds of women, I am just into them. Gingers and Blondes don't really do it for me anymore.

Any ideas what are some good cities for me? It seems like where I live every girl dyes her hair blond and going out there are real life barbie dolls everywhere. Not my thing.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

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I would say los Angeles but new york has a lot of European brunette chicks.. also new Jersey.
 

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Los Angeles? Heard that place was loaded with barbie dolls all over the place aka the California Blonde stereotype. I can't agree with you on that, there have to be better cities than LA.
 

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Benjaymin said:
Los Angeles? Heard that place was loaded with barbie dolls all over the place aka the California Blonde stereotype. I can't agree with you on that, there have to be better cities than LA.
nope. i lived in l.a my whole life. ive seein som really beautiful brunettes(probably not european) specially around hollywood blvd and sunset strip, santa monica, venice, malibu, etc

but like i said for european brunnetes new jersey or new york is loaded.
 

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Jair213 said:
nope. i lived in l.a my whole life. ive seein som really beautiful brunettes(probably not european) specially around hollywood blvd and sunset strip, santa monica, venice, malibu, etc

but like i said for european brunnetes new jersey or new york is loaded.
So Southern Cal isn't loaded with bimbos, correct?

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To Iceberg: Not true, I used to be in a college town which was LOADED with Bottle Blondes and Blondes, worst place ever. Brunettes were rare as **** there. Would not live in such an area again, I am just not into blondes.
 
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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

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Brunettes are everywhere, dude. I don't know that you need to move to a "brunette city" to find a brunette. Just move to ANY city, and talk to the girls you like.

Jesus, this forum sometimes....
 
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