urgh..day one...failure

[djinhell]

Ok, this was my post yesterday http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=153873

trying to shake up my life, and get more confident with women to get dates etc.

DAY ONE, and it was pretty much one big failure. For some reason, whenever there is an attractive woman around and I do have the courage to look at them, I seem to fail to smile..whats up with that!? I guess I just have to let go of inhibition and smile..I think im worried about looking like a sleazy perv lol

On the plus, I did speak to a girl in my class who I haven't before, and I felt more confident with my body language for the most part and I think an opportunity did present itself clearly for me to chat to a girl I would of used the 3-second rule and gone for it (always tomorrow I guess). Oh, is there much point in me chatting with girls who work in sales stores (to start me off) because they guaranteed will talk to you

The problem is I want to get to the Don Juan status and be chatting up girls everywhere with no worries. I need to start approaching, even if its just to speak to girls and not necessarily try to close with number.

Thoughts much appreciated guys

dj in hell

 

[Squidward]

There is always tomorrow mate, look back and see what you can improve on and try and do it the next day.

"whenever there is an attractive woman around and I do have the courage to look at them, I seem to fail to smile..whats up with that!? I guess I just have to let go of inhibition and smile..I think im worried about looking like a sleazy perv lol"

I think you'd come of more of a pervert if you don't smile, but why would you be a pervert for checking out a hot girl?! Embrace your sexuality!

Never let slow progress get you down. It's like watching a clock: If you spend all your time looking at it, the hands move slowly, but if you don't look it for some time, it seems like the hands have moved more than they should of!

Good luck.

 

[slaog]

Ok, this was my post yesterday http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=153873

trying to shake up my life, and get more confident with women to get dates etc.

DAY ONE, and it was pretty much one big failure. For some reason, whenever there is an attractive woman around and I do have the courage to look at them, I seem to fail to smile..whats up with that!? I guess I just have to let go of inhibition and smile..I think im worried about looking like a sleazy perv lol

On the plus, I did speak to a girl in my class who I haven't before, and I felt more confident with my body language for the most part and I think an opportunity did present itself clearly for me to chat to a girl I would of used the 3-second rule and gone for it (always tomorrow I guess). Oh, is there much point in me chatting with girls who work in sales stores (to start me off) because they guaranteed will talk to you

The problem is I want to get to the Don Juan status and be chatting up girls everywhere with no worries. I need to start approaching, even if its just to speak to girls and not necessarily try to close with number.

Thoughts much appreciated guys

dj in hell

It wasn't a failure. You talked to a girl who you havn't spoken to before. Thats already progress after just one day. Look at the positives always.