"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Urgent: Status Update and Why She Grabbed Me By My Neck to Kiss Me?

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Alright so here's an update. This took an interesting twist today.

Here is the original thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=158889

This is a run-off of that thread, more specific this time. I still would rather have girl #1 but here's what happened today when only one was there.

Only girl #2 was there. She was flirting with me all class. We were walking on the indoor track alone and I just touched her neck, and she grabbed me by mine. Pushed me up against the wall and started kissing me. She tried making out with me and I told her "Not yet". She's really slutty. Earlier I said "What should I do next" referring to working out and she said "Me". After class I told her to meet me after I changed and I'd give her my number. I got out and she was talking to another guy so we didn't talk but. What do the Don Juan's think?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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2 things
why didnt you want to make out with her?
and dude chill out if she is with another guy she will probobly pick you cuz your the obvious choice
 

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I didn't wanna make myself look that easy. Plus it wasn't the time or place to be making out, it's not like we could go anywhere with it in gym class.

I'm not worried about it in the least. Am I really the obvious choice though? Or is she just a slut?
 
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stop trying to undermine your acheivments
and your the obvious one because you KNOW you are the obvious one
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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