"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Urgent: Status Update and Why She Grabbed Me By My Neck to Kiss Me?

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Alright so here's an update. This took an interesting twist today.

Here is the original thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=158889

This is a run-off of that thread, more specific this time. I still would rather have girl #1 but here's what happened today when only one was there.

Only girl #2 was there. She was flirting with me all class. We were walking on the indoor track alone and I just touched her neck, and she grabbed me by mine. Pushed me up against the wall and started kissing me. She tried making out with me and I told her "Not yet". She's really slutty. Earlier I said "What should I do next" referring to working out and she said "Me". After class I told her to meet me after I changed and I'd give her my number. I got out and she was talking to another guy so we didn't talk but. What do the Don Juan's think?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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2 things
why didnt you want to make out with her?
and dude chill out if she is with another guy she will probobly pick you cuz your the obvious choice
 

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I didn't wanna make myself look that easy. Plus it wasn't the time or place to be making out, it's not like we could go anywhere with it in gym class.

I'm not worried about it in the least. Am I really the obvious choice though? Or is she just a slut?
 
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stop trying to undermine your acheivments
and your the obvious one because you KNOW you are the obvious one
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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