"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I just asked this girl to hang out, she says she's considering. She used to be from the same school as me, and is 1 year older. However, we have not talked to each other in person, as i just added her msn and we just talked for about a week now.

Me: i just don't see a point to talk on msn and not hang out.

Me: lol

Me: thought we could have a chance to get to know one another, but well. unfortunately, nice to know you anyway. haha.

Her: Does that mean you hang out with everyone on MSN?

Her: Don't you know me already?

Her: Haa.

Her: Don't sound so sad..

Her: Nice to know you..

Me: Haha.. a pity i can't know you better.

Me: Sure :)

Then after this she goes on asking me about my birthday. I say why? And she says just chatting, getting info. Lol. I don't know what the fvck to do. Continue gaming her? :confused:

EDIT: She has told me she does not want to hang out, before this string of conversation starts.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You wreak of disparity. Stop being so desperate.

"thought we could have a chance to get to know one another, but well. unfortunately, nice to know you anyway. haha."

haha.. Uh more like she's laughing at you. And you drop the line, nice to know you anyways! You think she's really going to fall for that ultimatum closer?

Women are not stupid. They don't work on logic so saying 'we'll never get to know eachother' doesn't make a bit of sense to them.

You'd have much better chances saying "look babe, I'm bored let's hangout."
It's straightforward, it's ballsy, and it's quick. If she says no, you say, Ok.
 

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Women are not stupid. They don't work on logic so saying 'we'll never get to know eachother' doesn't make a bit of sense to them.

You'd have much better chances saying "look babe, I'm bored let's hangout."
It's straightforward, it's ballsy, and it's quick. If she says no, you say, Ok.
Hmm, thanks, learnt something there.

I did say let's hang out, and she said no after some thinking. I said the "I thought i could know you better" thing to actually send her a message that i'm cutting her off, as she has burned out the 3 chances. Deleted her from my list, I don't see the need to initiate conversation.

If she initiates conversation, what type of game would I play now? :trouble:
 

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I know it is hard to grasp, but if a girl wanted to hang out with you, hook up with you, or give you an oppertunity she would. There is no way to really chnage her mind at this point. She see's you as a little boy or a play thing, when she is bored you amuse her on MSN. She is not going to sleep with you so just forget her. IF she writes you, can do whatever you want.

What I would do is just be brief, and chat for a second and tell her you have a date or something and get off line. You are the PRIZE that is the Mentality you have lost. Somehow she has made you think that she has the MAGIC P U S S Y, and her Poop does not stink..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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