"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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playerone

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I just asked this girl to hang out, she says she's considering. She used to be from the same school as me, and is 1 year older. However, we have not talked to each other in person, as i just added her msn and we just talked for about a week now.

Me: i just don't see a point to talk on msn and not hang out.

Me: lol

Me: thought we could have a chance to get to know one another, but well. unfortunately, nice to know you anyway. haha.

Her: Does that mean you hang out with everyone on MSN?

Her: Don't you know me already?

Her: Haa.

Her: Don't sound so sad..

Her: Nice to know you..

Me: Haha.. a pity i can't know you better.

Me: Sure :)

Then after this she goes on asking me about my birthday. I say why? And she says just chatting, getting info. Lol. I don't know what the fvck to do. Continue gaming her? :confused:

EDIT: She has told me she does not want to hang out, before this string of conversation starts.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You wreak of disparity. Stop being so desperate.

"thought we could have a chance to get to know one another, but well. unfortunately, nice to know you anyway. haha."

haha.. Uh more like she's laughing at you. And you drop the line, nice to know you anyways! You think she's really going to fall for that ultimatum closer?

Women are not stupid. They don't work on logic so saying 'we'll never get to know eachother' doesn't make a bit of sense to them.

You'd have much better chances saying "look babe, I'm bored let's hangout."
It's straightforward, it's ballsy, and it's quick. If she says no, you say, Ok.
 

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Women are not stupid. They don't work on logic so saying 'we'll never get to know eachother' doesn't make a bit of sense to them.

You'd have much better chances saying "look babe, I'm bored let's hangout."
It's straightforward, it's ballsy, and it's quick. If she says no, you say, Ok.
Hmm, thanks, learnt something there.

I did say let's hang out, and she said no after some thinking. I said the "I thought i could know you better" thing to actually send her a message that i'm cutting her off, as she has burned out the 3 chances. Deleted her from my list, I don't see the need to initiate conversation.

If she initiates conversation, what type of game would I play now? :trouble:
 

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I know it is hard to grasp, but if a girl wanted to hang out with you, hook up with you, or give you an oppertunity she would. There is no way to really chnage her mind at this point. She see's you as a little boy or a play thing, when she is bored you amuse her on MSN. She is not going to sleep with you so just forget her. IF she writes you, can do whatever you want.

What I would do is just be brief, and chat for a second and tell her you have a date or something and get off line. You are the PRIZE that is the Mentality you have lost. Somehow she has made you think that she has the MAGIC P U S S Y, and her Poop does not stink..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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