"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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URGENT: Need text response ASAP Please

CaConfused

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She texted me at 7:45 am

I replied :Hah. 7:45! Driving home or waking up

She replied: Haha Waking Up, :)

Then added: Do you always give girls a hard time or am I just special?

This seems like a big big opportunity. I just need some advice on how to play it.

I've dated her twice. This is the day after our 2nd date.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Tiguere

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text her whatever you want.

there are no shortcuts in reaching don juan mindset. you must fail and learn.
 

Plutoman

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Tiguere said:
text her whatever you want.

there are no shortcuts in reaching don juan mindset. you must fail and learn.
Advice can assist the learning process and speed it up. If that was not true, it wouldn't be worthwhile to read content at all, nor to discuss it. Learning from failures tells you what not to do, and learning from success verifies correct advice or instincts. When there's more ways to fail than to succeed, trying to advised avenues first tends to be the faster route.

That said, I don't have anything blaring off the top of my head as witty, particularly without knowing the girl in question and what she seems inclined to respond to. So I'll leave it to others to provide advice..
 

Harry Wilmington

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For the record, texting KILLS relationships.

With that said: play dumb, and deny everything she says:

Her: Do you always give girls a hard time or am I just special?
You: Hard time? I have no idea what you're talking about.

Or:

You: That would depend on your definition of the words "hard" and "time" cutie ;P

Or:

You: I don't recall meeting you on a short yellow bus... oh wait, you didn't mean THAT kind of "special," right?

Never take them seriously, man!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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CaConfused

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Went with the first one... love it. That's a good tone.

I know you hate texting. I'm minimizing it.
 

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Pure gold, Harry.
I like to get the hamster sweating its arse off.
"Why do girls always say that?"
Or: "All my girls are special."
 
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