"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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URGENT: Need text response ASAP Please

CaConfused

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She texted me at 7:45 am

I replied :Hah. 7:45! Driving home or waking up

She replied: Haha Waking Up, :)

Then added: Do you always give girls a hard time or am I just special?

This seems like a big big opportunity. I just need some advice on how to play it.

I've dated her twice. This is the day after our 2nd date.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Tiguere

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text her whatever you want.

there are no shortcuts in reaching don juan mindset. you must fail and learn.
 

Plutoman

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Tiguere said:
text her whatever you want.

there are no shortcuts in reaching don juan mindset. you must fail and learn.
Advice can assist the learning process and speed it up. If that was not true, it wouldn't be worthwhile to read content at all, nor to discuss it. Learning from failures tells you what not to do, and learning from success verifies correct advice or instincts. When there's more ways to fail than to succeed, trying to advised avenues first tends to be the faster route.

That said, I don't have anything blaring off the top of my head as witty, particularly without knowing the girl in question and what she seems inclined to respond to. So I'll leave it to others to provide advice..
 

Harry Wilmington

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For the record, texting KILLS relationships.

With that said: play dumb, and deny everything she says:

Her: Do you always give girls a hard time or am I just special?
You: Hard time? I have no idea what you're talking about.

Or:

You: That would depend on your definition of the words "hard" and "time" cutie ;P

Or:

You: I don't recall meeting you on a short yellow bus... oh wait, you didn't mean THAT kind of "special," right?

Never take them seriously, man!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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CaConfused

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Went with the first one... love it. That's a good tone.

I know you hate texting. I'm minimizing it.
 

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Pure gold, Harry.
I like to get the hamster sweating its arse off.
"Why do girls always say that?"
Or: "All my girls are special."
 
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