salinechow
Senior Don Juan
stevo said:
Made me laugh. Happy for the OP.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
****urgent**** need answer within 10 minutes!
- Thread starter narcissist
- Start date
Made me laugh. Happy for the OP.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Desdinova
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Thanks for the update!
It's really difficult to read a chick's IL in the beginning until you get that first real green light, and the 5hit they say can really throw you off... Now remember to message her today. You NEED to do that the day after.
It's really difficult to read a chick's IL in the beginning until you get that first real green light, and the 5hit they say can really throw you off... Now remember to message her today. You NEED to do that the day after.
Sit back , go about your day (s) and let HER hit you up.
I REPEAT let HER hit you up , I know how tempting it is but just control yourself.
"If" she doesn't don't stress , you already got what you wanted from her , she is automatically low value to you now. If you keep hitting up her phone , you are going to throw the ball right back into her court.
Rinse & Repeat.
I REPEAT let HER hit you up , I know how tempting it is but just control yourself.
"If" she doesn't don't stress , you already got what you wanted from her , she is automatically low value to you now. If you keep hitting up her phone , you are going to throw the ball right back into her court.
Rinse & Repeat.
Let her text you. Many girls will text you how much she enjoyed it bla bla blah. That said some expect you to initiate contact with them even after sex. I've had a few like that.
If you don't hear anything from her you could call her 3 days later at night. She will be receptive. Ask her out for next weekend or whenever and bang her again. You can also not call her and power play her until she contacts you. Both are fine.
Don't stress on it too much. The important thing is this: YOU ARE NOW IN POWER.
If you don't hear anything from her you could call her 3 days later at night. She will be receptive. Ask her out for next weekend or whenever and bang her again. You can also not call her and power play her until she contacts you. Both are fine.
Don't stress on it too much. The important thing is this: YOU ARE NOW IN POWER.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Too much of something becomes low value. This is a huge lesson i have learned in my life. She has gotten the perfect amount of me. If i contact her today I will fvck that up by giving too much supply with not enough demand. The perfect equation is having more demand then supply. So I am not going to contact her today. I want her to let the night sink into her veins and soul. Let her do some imagining. Let her hamster spin a bit, before I talk to her again. So at the very least Ill wait 3 days to talk to her. I want her demand for me to become uncontrollable... intolerable.
Plus I don't like too much supply from a woman to be honest. I know it sounds weird but I like a little bit of mystery in a woman, so a couple days no contact will make my attraction for her stronger, which makes the game more fun for me, ultimately.
So relaxing and not contacting right away is a win/win.
I feel you guys on that for sure.
Plus I don't like too much supply from a woman to be honest. I know it sounds weird but I like a little bit of mystery in a woman, so a couple days no contact will make my attraction for her stronger, which makes the game more fun for me, ultimately.
So relaxing and not contacting right away is a win/win.
I feel you guys on that for sure.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
Agree and amplify will stomp anything she say's simply because she's the one usually being open about something negative between two people. And then of course do the opposite...Desdinova said:
Well done OP!
In these situations I tend to either say:
"It's cute that you think you make the rules."
(If she's fiery & talk is already sexual)
"Easy there champ, I haven't decided if you're going to get in my pants yet."
(If she's shy)
In these situations I tend to either say:
"It's cute that you think you make the rules."
(If she's fiery & talk is already sexual)
"Easy there champ, I haven't decided if you're going to get in my pants yet."
(If she's shy)
salinechow
Senior Don Juan
BrainDamage92 said:
Im not sure if this is something I want to hear or that I need to hear.