salinechow
Senior Don Juan
stevo said:
Made me laugh. Happy for the OP.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Made me laugh. Happy for the OP.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Desdinova
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Thanks for the update!
It's really difficult to read a chick's IL in the beginning until you get that first real green light, and the 5hit they say can really throw you off... Now remember to message her today. You NEED to do that the day after.
It's really difficult to read a chick's IL in the beginning until you get that first real green light, and the 5hit they say can really throw you off... Now remember to message her today. You NEED to do that the day after.
Sit back , go about your day (s) and let HER hit you up.
I REPEAT let HER hit you up , I know how tempting it is but just control yourself.
"If" she doesn't don't stress , you already got what you wanted from her , she is automatically low value to you now. If you keep hitting up her phone , you are going to throw the ball right back into her court.
Rinse & Repeat.
I REPEAT let HER hit you up , I know how tempting it is but just control yourself.
"If" she doesn't don't stress , you already got what you wanted from her , she is automatically low value to you now. If you keep hitting up her phone , you are going to throw the ball right back into her court.
Rinse & Repeat.
Let her text you. Many girls will text you how much she enjoyed it bla bla blah. That said some expect you to initiate contact with them even after sex. I've had a few like that.
If you don't hear anything from her you could call her 3 days later at night. She will be receptive. Ask her out for next weekend or whenever and bang her again. You can also not call her and power play her until she contacts you. Both are fine.
Don't stress on it too much. The important thing is this: YOU ARE NOW IN POWER.
If you don't hear anything from her you could call her 3 days later at night. She will be receptive. Ask her out for next weekend or whenever and bang her again. You can also not call her and power play her until she contacts you. Both are fine.
Don't stress on it too much. The important thing is this: YOU ARE NOW IN POWER.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Too much of something becomes low value. This is a huge lesson i have learned in my life. She has gotten the perfect amount of me. If i contact her today I will fvck that up by giving too much supply with not enough demand. The perfect equation is having more demand then supply. So I am not going to contact her today. I want her to let the night sink into her veins and soul. Let her do some imagining. Let her hamster spin a bit, before I talk to her again. So at the very least Ill wait 3 days to talk to her. I want her demand for me to become uncontrollable... intolerable.
Plus I don't like too much supply from a woman to be honest. I know it sounds weird but I like a little bit of mystery in a woman, so a couple days no contact will make my attraction for her stronger, which makes the game more fun for me, ultimately.
So relaxing and not contacting right away is a win/win.
I feel you guys on that for sure.
Plus I don't like too much supply from a woman to be honest. I know it sounds weird but I like a little bit of mystery in a woman, so a couple days no contact will make my attraction for her stronger, which makes the game more fun for me, ultimately.
So relaxing and not contacting right away is a win/win.
I feel you guys on that for sure.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
Agree and amplify will stomp anything she say's simply because she's the one usually being open about something negative between two people. And then of course do the opposite...Desdinova said:
Well done OP!
In these situations I tend to either say:
"It's cute that you think you make the rules."
(If she's fiery & talk is already sexual)
"Easy there champ, I haven't decided if you're going to get in my pants yet."
(If she's shy)
In these situations I tend to either say:
"It's cute that you think you make the rules."
(If she's fiery & talk is already sexual)
"Easy there champ, I haven't decided if you're going to get in my pants yet."
(If she's shy)
salinechow
Senior Don Juan
BrainDamage92 said:
Im not sure if this is something I want to hear or that I need to hear.