"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hey guys
I have known a girl for some time now, talked to her a few times in real life because she lives nearby but mostly on the internet. Well we went on a date to the cinema on saturday nite and we got on really really well and we kissed later in the nite. The prob is she sorta likes another guy as well. I donno what way I should react or what to say to her. I really want this girl because she is a cracker and the fact that we got on so well makes me want her even more. she told me that if she was to meet me a few times more she knows she would definitly develop feelings for me but at the same time she still likes this otehr guy.

What should I do???
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well dude, her Interest Level seems high. Have you read the bible?? "If you are persuing her romantically, don't do it over the internet. Use the phone" <-- (that's posted somewhere on the site, I can't take credit). Don't concern yourself with that other guy, just keep your backbone, remain a challange and mystery, and let that other AFC try to buy her affection...
 
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Don't try to convince her that you are better - don't compete!
 
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Knicknack

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i'd tell her to date that other guy and have a blast. tell her you just want to be her friend anyway. don't call her and see how she reacts. she'll be all over you.
 
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Don't fall for her so quick!! Have other girls that you are seeing. That's the beauty of being a DJ. You always have options, so you don't get too attached to one, or you can quickly let go of one when they act up. Don't let the other guy worry you, go get other girls and you'll be fine.



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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DJ_Dork

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yeah don't compete, but then again don't fall for this girl since she has warned you that she is seeing another guy. so now it is your turn to look for other girls too and if you can't look for another one.. then just be aloof and hope she decides to choose you. just be excellent.
 
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