"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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spiker

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hey guys
I have known a girl for some time now, talked to her a few times in real life because she lives nearby but mostly on the internet. Well we went on a date to the cinema on saturday nite and we got on really really well and we kissed later in the nite. The prob is she sorta likes another guy as well. I donno what way I should react or what to say to her. I really want this girl because she is a cracker and the fact that we got on so well makes me want her even more. she told me that if she was to meet me a few times more she knows she would definitly develop feelings for me but at the same time she still likes this otehr guy.

What should I do???
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well dude, her Interest Level seems high. Have you read the bible?? "If you are persuing her romantically, don't do it over the internet. Use the phone" <-- (that's posted somewhere on the site, I can't take credit). Don't concern yourself with that other guy, just keep your backbone, remain a challange and mystery, and let that other AFC try to buy her affection...
 
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Don't try to convince her that you are better - don't compete!
 
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Knicknack

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i'd tell her to date that other guy and have a blast. tell her you just want to be her friend anyway. don't call her and see how she reacts. she'll be all over you.
 
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Pimp-sicle

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Don't fall for her so quick!! Have other girls that you are seeing. That's the beauty of being a DJ. You always have options, so you don't get too attached to one, or you can quickly let go of one when they act up. Don't let the other guy worry you, go get other girls and you'll be fine.



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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DJ_Dork

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yeah don't compete, but then again don't fall for this girl since she has warned you that she is seeing another guy. so now it is your turn to look for other girls too and if you can't look for another one.. then just be aloof and hope she decides to choose you. just be excellent.
 
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