"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi, wondering if anybody could help me quickly....
Ive been talking to an aqqaintance of mine lately and we seem to be getting on great, lots of rapport and potential. But Im finding it difficult to take the next step from just friendly, meaningless flirting into something more which will get me into the position where she feels something for me emotionally; longing and attraction etc. Bare in mind this is not a girl I regularly see other than at college and parties, where we seem to get on well also. Id like some help in the shape of a few tips and techniques, but Im a little worried about her reaction to it. Please help, thanks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don't worry about her reaction. Seriously, its not worth it. She's just an aqaintence anyway, right? Its not like you'll see her everyday of your life. If you screw up and she ends up hating you, oh well.
 
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Kino has always been a big one for me. I cannot stress how important it is. It gets her to feel comfortable not only being around you, but being touched by you. Then, go for the phone number, and set up a date.

If you get rejected, so what? Just move onto another woman.
 
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