Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Urgent Help Required - Taking The Next Step..

bilo_11

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Hi, wondering if anybody could help me quickly....
Ive been talking to an aqqaintance of mine lately and we seem to be getting on great, lots of rapport and potential. But Im finding it difficult to take the next step from just friendly, meaningless flirting into something more which will get me into the position where she feels something for me emotionally; longing and attraction etc. Bare in mind this is not a girl I regularly see other than at college and parties, where we seem to get on well also. Id like some help in the shape of a few tips and techniques, but Im a little worried about her reaction to it. Please help, thanks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ace of Flames

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Don't worry about her reaction. Seriously, its not worth it. She's just an aqaintence anyway, right? Its not like you'll see her everyday of your life. If you screw up and she ends up hating you, oh well.
 

Desdinova

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Kino has always been a big one for me. I cannot stress how important it is. It gets her to feel comfortable not only being around you, but being touched by you. Then, go for the phone number, and set up a date.

If you get rejected, so what? Just move onto another woman.
 
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