"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Last Man Standing said:
Do you want me to talk to her? :rolleyes:

Ask her that you couldn't figure out what she was mouthing to you and you are curious. If it's insulting then say - "you're a nice girl" - sarcastically!!!!
I probably would have said that if I wasn't so frozen up by it. Ever play baseball? It was like the first time a fast ball was coming straight at you but your so stunned you don't even move, but you learned next time you need to get out of the way. I was trying to keep eye contact while she was interacting with me but her lips are so nice, but so are her eyes so it was easier to keep eye contact. I didn't want to be checking out her body as she was talking to me. Wouldn't it be awkward to ask her about something that happened 4 days ago?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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After 4 days - yes, it shows her that you are scared to approach. Just tell her you don't read lips. do you have a better opener?
 
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Last Man Standing said:
After 4 days - yes, it shows her that you are scared to approach. Just tell her you don't read lips. do you have a better opener?
You seem like the expert, so don't you think I should start with something new? Wouldn't it make me look like I lack confidence for not asking her when it happened?
 
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I gave you that line in a previous post.
 
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Last Man Standing said:
I gave you that line in a previous post.
Don't you think it would be random to approach her like that in a class room setting? Conversations are usually heard by others in this class.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Put a note on her desk then.
 
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Don The Magic Juan said:
Outdated and total lack of confidence shown.
hahaha, so you want a modern high tech solution?:) Make the note into a plane and guide it with a laser beam with the aid of GPS and aim for her forehead!:

You are finding excuses not to approach - find a solution to approach!
 
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hahaha, so you want a modern high tech solution?:) Make the note into a plane and guide it with a laser beam with the aid of GPS and aim for her forehead!:

You are finding excuses not to approach - find a solution to approach!
Okay, I will try to do so on Monday.
 
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I got some last minute questions that I think some of you may be able to answer.

What do you think she thinks of me right now?

Does it mean anything that she looks at me or is it not a big deal?

What words do you think she was mouthing to me?

Besides the conversation about me waxing my eyebrows earlier in the year and her mouthing those words to me on Thursday the only other things she has said to me was "That jacket is the ugliest jacket I ever scene" and "That's a shiny shirt". Interpretation?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Don The Magic Juan said:
...only other things she has said to me was "That jacket is the ugliest jacket I ever scene" and "That's a shiny shirt". Interpretation?
It means your jacket is ugly and your shirt is shiny! :rolleyes:

Take this to the High School Forum!
 

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Don The Magic Juan said:
No, it's not like I get them all taken off. Just the middle so it doesn't form a unibrow.
:crackup: :crackup: Hahaha, bro, just take 15 seconds and tweeze/shave them yourself once a week. Saves you $20 paying some salon to do it for you.
 
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She made eye contact with me once briefly. No chances of talking to her whatsoever. Tomorrow is the last class (and shortened class)
 
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You didn't talk to her did you?

All that counsel for nothing!
 
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