"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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URGENT: girl wants to change the date today

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Hello! Called a girl a few days ago asking her out on an action date (sledge riding and drinking hot chocolate at my place) she said it sounded mighty fun and she was available today, and that she was gonna call me after football practice...

But now she texts me and saying "Hey shall we play football instead?" the thing is I really suck at football and she will see me as a fkn pvssy if she sees me playing...

Should I accept it or decline?
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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if she wants to play football with you man, she's gonna be worse than you. are you talking about what we call "soccer" in australia? the round ball, cant use your hands? how is that a problem man?

i would let her be the goalie and let her stop a couple, as well as get a few in. i reckon it's ok for you to proceed.

she prob just feels like exercising, or doesnt want to go to your house just yet (since u just met i'm assuming)..
 
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hehe yes it's soccer, but now I waited and she called 15mins after the sms, I told her I haven't read it and she we are going to play hehe so wish me luck on my first date fellas! :p

throughout my childhood I never touched a ball, I was more of the LEGO-type...
 
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Just tell her you don't care for football. She'll respect you for being honest about something you dislike.

This isn't rocket science. If you don't wanna do something with someone, then don't fvcking do it!
 
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Hah, no, it's not "soccer" - it's football. Why does an American game mostly involving your hands deserve to be called football in place of the real football (aka "soccer")

Just be goalkeeper. Make a joke and say you suck at football - poking fun out of yourself and saying you're crap at it isn't gonna hurt your chances - how can you be good at every sport. Good luck man, score a goal ( ;) ;) haha )
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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went on the date now, seems she just wants to be friends... she gave me a hug but that's all :p NEXT :D
 
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You planned out sledge riding and hot chocolate NOT football. You should have cancelled
 
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