"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Urgent FB game help!!

MillionBillionaire

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Sunday I notice I have a poke on facebook that I haven't seen before. I notice that the picture of the person poking me is hb10. So I send this person a friend request joking in my mind that this person would accept.

3 full days pass without me checking my facebook and when I do...

I notice a message that is 3 days old that I haven't read..

It's the hb10 that poked me, I sent a friend request, she accepted and then ...

Wrote ME a message on facebook!

She messages me .. "tnx 4 the add how are u?"

Immediately I think this is a trick so I do a full investigation to see if it is a fake account and maybe someone is playing a prank on me...

It's a real account.. I conclude. Over the top evidence she is a real person...

so I reply back.. "Great how about you? Wanna meet up for some coffee sometime? It'll be fun."

and I am now waiting for a response.

I am kinda skeptical just because she if crazy hot, and so are her friends...
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Did I do the right thing by asking her for the date right away...

Could this be a scam?

The only thing that is a yellow flag is she doesn't say where she lives or where she works but her friends are mostly people that live in my area...

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If she is really that person messaging me ... How do I make sure this works?

Should I ask for her number next if she responds or go for securing the date through messaging?

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SmooveMooves

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Most likely is fake. Rare cases a HB10 will initiate contact first unless you're a local celebrity, the most interesting man in the world or look like Channing Tatum times 57. Good work setting up the date though, straight foward and assertive just as should be. A lil tip that works wonders is instead of saying "Wanna meet up" say "Lets meet up" simple word changes like these give you control. If she responds and agrees get the number and contact her only regarding the date. if she deflects or bull****s chances are the b1tch is a catfish looking for someone to care about her pathetic ass.

Don't immediately assume the worse though, she could actually be the -1% of HB10's who initiate and don't bull****.
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MillionBillionaire

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Just a little update ...

"She" responds with "where are you from" and "I'm currently in Singapore modeling" blah blah blah.. Doesn't even acknowledge that I asked her for coffee..

I replied.. "wtf your a fake" and unfriended that scammer.

Scam. First red flag was she was waaaayyy too hot to be contacting me out of the blue.

Prolly the latest identity theft scam or something.



Good practice I guess ... I'm going to unfriend that scammer. Always be super careful online.
 
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