"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Urgent FB game help!!

MillionBillionaire

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Sunday I notice I have a poke on facebook that I haven't seen before. I notice that the picture of the person poking me is hb10. So I send this person a friend request joking in my mind that this person would accept.

3 full days pass without me checking my facebook and when I do...

I notice a message that is 3 days old that I haven't read..

It's the hb10 that poked me, I sent a friend request, she accepted and then ...

Wrote ME a message on facebook!

She messages me .. "tnx 4 the add how are u?"

Immediately I think this is a trick so I do a full investigation to see if it is a fake account and maybe someone is playing a prank on me...

It's a real account.. I conclude. Over the top evidence she is a real person...

so I reply back.. "Great how about you? Wanna meet up for some coffee sometime? It'll be fun."

and I am now waiting for a response.

I am kinda skeptical just because she if crazy hot, and so are her friends...
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Did I do the right thing by asking her for the date right away...

Could this be a scam?

The only thing that is a yellow flag is she doesn't say where she lives or where she works but her friends are mostly people that live in my area...

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If she is really that person messaging me ... How do I make sure this works?

Should I ask for her number next if she responds or go for securing the date through messaging?

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Most likely is fake. Rare cases a HB10 will initiate contact first unless you're a local celebrity, the most interesting man in the world or look like Channing Tatum times 57. Good work setting up the date though, straight foward and assertive just as should be. A lil tip that works wonders is instead of saying "Wanna meet up" say "Lets meet up" simple word changes like these give you control. If she responds and agrees get the number and contact her only regarding the date. if she deflects or bull****s chances are the b1tch is a catfish looking for someone to care about her pathetic ass.

Don't immediately assume the worse though, she could actually be the -1% of HB10's who initiate and don't bull****.
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Just a little update ...

"She" responds with "where are you from" and "I'm currently in Singapore modeling" blah blah blah.. Doesn't even acknowledge that I asked her for coffee..

I replied.. "wtf your a fake" and unfriended that scammer.

Scam. First red flag was she was waaaayyy too hot to be contacting me out of the blue.

Prolly the latest identity theft scam or something.



Good practice I guess ... I'm going to unfriend that scammer. Always be super careful online.
 
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