WorstPossibleOutcome
Don Juan
I am a painfully shy guy. I am almost 21 and I have never had a relationship before. I have never had casual sex either. I am terrified of intimacy, but crave it at the same time. Pathetic, I know, but I can't really help it.
Anyway, I met this really cool girl last week. We spent most of Saturday together. It's really wierd, we are connecting in a way I never thought I'd ever be able to connect with a girl. We flirt a lot. She wanted us to spend today (sunday) together. I told her that I was working until 4:00 but that I had band practice after that, and that she was free to come over to my house (where the studio is), meet the band, watch me play, smoke up and hang out. She said "that sounds awesome" and so that is what we are going to do.
I never thought I'd ever meet a girl this cool. I'm really confused. After practice is over and the band leaves, should I invite her to spend the night? Should I drop hints about spending the night without actually asking? Should I buy a bottle of wine? Or should I just avoid that whole area altogether for tonight, since we don't really know each other that well yet? Which is worse, kissing her clumsily or not kissing her at all?
DJ's: what would you do if you were me?
Anyway, I met this really cool girl last week. We spent most of Saturday together. It's really wierd, we are connecting in a way I never thought I'd ever be able to connect with a girl. We flirt a lot. She wanted us to spend today (sunday) together. I told her that I was working until 4:00 but that I had band practice after that, and that she was free to come over to my house (where the studio is), meet the band, watch me play, smoke up and hang out. She said "that sounds awesome" and so that is what we are going to do.
I never thought I'd ever meet a girl this cool. I'm really confused. After practice is over and the band leaves, should I invite her to spend the night? Should I drop hints about spending the night without actually asking? Should I buy a bottle of wine? Or should I just avoid that whole area altogether for tonight, since we don't really know each other that well yet? Which is worse, kissing her clumsily or not kissing her at all?
DJ's: what would you do if you were me?
