"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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WorstPossibleOutcome

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I am a painfully shy guy. I am almost 21 and I have never had a relationship before. I have never had casual sex either. I am terrified of intimacy, but crave it at the same time. Pathetic, I know, but I can't really help it.

Anyway, I met this really cool girl last week. We spent most of Saturday together. It's really wierd, we are connecting in a way I never thought I'd ever be able to connect with a girl. We flirt a lot. She wanted us to spend today (sunday) together. I told her that I was working until 4:00 but that I had band practice after that, and that she was free to come over to my house (where the studio is), meet the band, watch me play, smoke up and hang out. She said "that sounds awesome" and so that is what we are going to do.

I never thought I'd ever meet a girl this cool. I'm really confused. After practice is over and the band leaves, should I invite her to spend the night? Should I drop hints about spending the night without actually asking? Should I buy a bottle of wine? Or should I just avoid that whole area altogether for tonight, since we don't really know each other that well yet? Which is worse, kissing her clumsily or not kissing her at all?

DJ's: what would you do if you were me?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Women aren't stupid. If she's agreed to come over to your place, she is expecting you to fvck her, or at least attempt to.

Don't dissapoint her!

Don't "ask" for anything, either. Kiss her for a while. Then kiss her neck, let hands wander etc - but let it all flow naturally.
 
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