"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Urge to kill...rising.

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Okay, so I finally decide that I'm tired of wondering about this chick, she's been giving me MAD buying signs, she's really cool, etc. I call her tonight, shoot the breeze, then ask what she's doing saturday. "Oh, I might go to seaworld." "Seaworld? You just randomly driving down there or what?" "No, my boyfriend's taking me, he just doesn't know it yet." "Ah, okay." "Yeah, sorry." "Okay, talk to you later." "Bye."

What was I supposed to do there, besides wait until the phone finished hanging up, throw it across the lawn, and scream?

On the upside, this officially clears me to shoot for her hot friend, and move on to those backups I've been so busily working on. I love school.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'm confused, what do you want to know?
 
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It was more me venting, but if you know of some C+F or something I should have said, so I didn't come off looking stupid, I'd love to know :)
 
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Well definetely next her for 2 reasons, shes a liar, and she may have a boyfriend
 
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Sorry, don't really have any advice... but nice simpsons reference
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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if she really DOES have a boyfriend, then either
a) she's an attention *****
b) you need to brush up on your "buying signals" because she's not as interested as you think
either way, forget her

if she DOESN'T have a bf, then
a) she's playing mindgames with you. What a ****in *****.
b) she's tryin to make you jealous. Looks like she's the one DJing you.....

meh...
 
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just because she said she had a b/f your going to forget about her?!?!? brooooo she is giving you signalsss, who cares if she has a b/f. She is probably just trying to make you jelous, or trying to seem "hard to get"

my suggestion is never give up until SHE TELLS YOU SHE DOESNT LIKE YOU.
 
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No way! If you keep trying until she flat out tells you she's not interested, you're be persuing her forever. By her actions she's already labeled herself an attention wh*re, and if you try to continue chasing her, you'll just feed the flames. Worse, you might even fall into 'friend' zone. Nobody wants that. Your best bet is to just get over it and next her. Good luck.
 
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